land without feelings

I don't want to sound callous.

Of course you want everything your way, but sometimes fate just wants to be a bitch and not want your life to be "smooth". But then a smooth-sailing life is subjective - He who is contented is happy.

People don't change. It was how the situation puts them to be. The same person will forever, be the same. So why not just let things pass?

To be frank though, you shot your own foot.

(I wish I can be more specific about this, but I've had enough of childish debates for this year.)